We hope you had a meaningful Thanksgiving there is much to be grateful for. Welcome back to Torah Thoughts from Adas Israel the Jewish Congregation of Northern Iowa, based in Mason City. This week we read Vayetzei (Hebrew for "he departed" ) and you can find it in Genesis 28:10 - 32:3. "Jacob departed from Beer-sheba and went toward Haran."
This begins the interesting tale of Jacob who, for the first sixty-three years of his life studied with his father, Isaac. In was done in the safety of Canaan but now he was going on a journey and live in Haran where Laban was from, a land full of dishonesty. So Jacob, to augment his faith went to study with the Torah of Shem and Eber. Both of whom had lived in a corrosive element. Shem with the Flood and Eber who lived with those who built the Tower of Babel.
It was his personal effort that earned him the prophecy and the dream of the ladder. And behold Hashem was standing over him, and spoke these words: "I am Hashem, G-d of Abraham your father and G-d of Isaac; the ground upon which you are lying, to you will I give it and to your descendants." The Torah goes on to make a promise of greatness and that G-d will always be with Jacob.
Pretty impressive huh?
But what was to follow is even more interesting. We all know the story where Laban switched daughters and Leah became the first wife of Jacob but what you may not know is that each of the four wives of jacob had three sons each with the exception of Leah who had a fourth son whom she called Judah. The birth of the name we are known by...the "Jew". Says Leah, "This time let me gratefully praise Hashem" and she called his name Judah. (Gen. 29:35).
Today we remember the dishonesty of Laban at every wedding. How? In traditional Jewish weddings there is the "lifting of the veil" known as the "bedekin". So now you know where that tradition comes from. There is a difference, however, from other faith groups. In a Jewish wedding the veil is lifted up and placed over the face of the bride by the groom before the pronouncement of the marriage. Ya gotta make sure who is...who.
As the parsha continues we know that as Jacob attempts to build a life for his family it is Laban who continues to change the agreement and Jacob must wait another 20 years before G-d tells him is is time to go home. But Laban follows the tribe saying he has claims that must be resolved. The story finally ends when there is peace and blessings between Jacob and Laban.
Out of troubling times there can be resolution and peace.
Shabbat Shalom and thank you for reading!