Welcome back to Torah Thoughts from Adas Israel the Jewish Congregation of Northern Iowa, based in Mason City. It is the end of the secular year and what a year it has been. Now, as we deal with even more uncertainty when it comes to the pandemic it is comforting to be able to turn to something concrete. Something that we know and that is Torah. This week we read Parsha Va'eria (Exodus 6:2 - 9:35). The word va'eria in Hebrew means "I appeared". We find it in the opening line of this week's parsha, "G-d spoke to Moses and said to him, "I am Hashem: I appeared to Abraham, to Isaac and to Jacob as El Shaddai, My Name Hashem I did not make Myself known to them."
What's Going On?
If you remember, at the end of last week's parsha Moses complained that G-d had sent him to Pharaoh in vain. Not only did the King of Egypt not let the Jews go he doubled down on their workload and made life more difficult for them. Moses is distraught not because he failed in his mission but that the rebuke from Pharaoh lessoned the Egyptians fear of G-d. It is the job of Moses (and every Jew) to uphold G-d's reputation as the Almighty.
This is why observing the mitzvot of the Torah are so important. The commandments are there to help us in our life's journey so that every day, and in every way, we are honoring G-d. So we must speak the truth and live our lives always on the side of G-d and not bring dishonor to His name.
And so, this week G-d seeks to reassure Moses by saying, "Sure Abraham, Isaac and Jacob were great guys that had special gifts but you, Moses, are the greatest of all and because of that I'm going to let you in on a little secret. You get to know my real name."
The message is that we all need reassurance in our lives...even Moses.
Just a bit further we read Ex. 6: 6-7 and if what you are about to read has you leaning a bit to the left and thinking about wine it should. Why? because this is something we read during our Passover Seder...and the drinking of four cups of wine. It is the "Four Expressions of Redemption". Ready? "Therefore, say to the Children of Israel, I am Hashem, and I shall take you out (1) from under the burdens of Egypt, I shall rescue (2) you from their service, I shall redeem (3) you with an outstretched arm and with great judgements. I shall take (4) you to Me for a people and I shall be a God to you; and you shall know that I am Hashem, your G-d who takes you out from under the burdens of Egypt."
So, not only does G-d seek to reassure Moses and place him in a different role but he, again, makes a promise. Pretty cool huh?
Double Speak?
We now come to something that seems a bit odd. G-d, sort of says the same thing...twice. "G-d spoke to Moses and Aaron and commanded them the Children of Israel and regarding Pharaoh, king of Egypt, to take the Children of Israel out of the land of Egypt" (Ex. 6:13).
This verse appears redundant. Just two verses earlier, the Torah says, “G-d spoke to Moses, saying, `Come speak to Pharaoh, king of Egypt, that he send the Children of Israel from his land' ” (Ex. 6: 10-11) Rashi explains that the second verse means that G-d told them to speak respectfully to the king of Egypt.
Is this not a bit strange? Moses was going to warn Pharaoh about the ten plagues that he would suffer. In the presence of all the ministers in the palace, Moses was going to speak harshly to Pharaoh. How can this be respectful?
Rabbi Yehudah Leib Chasman says that there was no way out of delivering the warnings to Pharaoh. However, although what had to be said had to be said, it could still be said respectfully rather than with indignation. Indeed, we see that when Moses told Pharaoh about the plague of the firstborn, at which time Moses was angry, he nevertheless said, “Then all these servants of yours will come down to me and bow to me, saying, `Leave – you and the entire people that follows you' ” (Ex. 11:8). Rashi says that Moses really meant that Pharaoh himself will come and bow to him and plead for him to take the Israelites out of Egypt, but out of respect for the king he said “all these servants of yours will come down to me and bow to me”
What Can We Learn?
Rabbi Avraham Twerski (z"l) writes that the Torah is teaching us that even when we must reprimand or punish someone, we should make every effort to avoid insulting him. This is so important in disciplining children. Obviously, children must be reprimanded when they do wrong, and sometimes it is necessary to punish them. However, we should be most cautious to do so in a manner that does not humiliate the child or crush him.
Children who were insulted when they were disciplined are likely to develop feelings of shame and worthlessness which may accompany them throughout their lives. If parents would realize how destructive low self-esteem is to their children, they would be much more careful in how they discipline them. Emotional abuse of a child is as serious an offense as physical abuse. Yet, parents who would never think of breaking a child's arm or leg may not give much thought to the words they use in a reprimand.
Children must be taught right from wrong, but they should be helped to retain their dignity.
The same can be said about...adults...no?
We've set aside January 14 and 15 for services and for our Midrash. We'll meet for services at 7:00PM on Friday the 14th and then for our Torah Study (Midrash) on Shabbat the 15th at 10:00AM. Hope to see you in Shul!
Shabbat Shalom and Happy New Year!